I am in a mood to do some serious advicing to some seriously confused people. Firstly Kabin: If you like someone and she tells you that she is not interested straight on your face then she means it!! Going after her and acting crazy will prolly make her mad and make her loathe you! Hence.. the most you can do is be friends and have a nice friendly relation with her. There are a lot of other people.. so forget her! U_day: I am guessing that you are single! LOL. "do not say I love you" re!! OMG.. that would make one seriously doubt if you are just playing them. They are just words but its always good to hear them! VincentB....: You have some serious misconceptions. I think nepali women do too much for their men and hence get treated badly.