Shiv, Nepesahila, f22, nepalimanchhe, scarlett, bhoonte and i-nepali ji, Thanks for your nice comments and for your best wishes to our marriage to last 90 years. As far as it's in our hands, we will try to keep the bond until the last breath. Little things matter in life. Who knows when life ends --- therefore, we live day by day, trying to make each day happier than before. I am not telling we don't fight. There are so many days in the last nine years when we have fought and argued. However, the day ends with a smile on our face and the issue never carries over to another day. I am good at few things and she is good at others. [Economics? That helps marriage as an institution where specialization and division of labor benefits both parties]. One other thing we have to consider is who will be the childhood role model for your children. It is really hard to be own children's role model - because you can't pretend anything anytime. It's worth a try. You won't have to look at the neighbor next door for an example of happy family.