Magdalena jyu, u r changing ur definition lyk a chameleon. ====VERY FIRST POST OF URS=============================== aha, This is why I stay the hell away from most Nepalese people. Of course, educated members of our community are great. My dad is a double masters engineer and you'll never hear him say or do some of the really idiotic things I've seen Nepalese men do. I think it's usually fresh off the boat nepalese who behave stupidly, so I don't want to generalize. I know the Nepalese men in my family are well educated and well mannered and that's all great, but some of the men I've seen are just so stupid that it's beyond funny. I once went to a Nepalese party and grown men drank too much and threw up!!! Can you believe it? And not just one, four or five of them. It was so disgusting. Plus, if you're not super friendly then you get accused of trying to be white. So my advice: if it's a fresh off the boat nepali man, avoid him like the plague ===================================================== u said=====> "I think it's usually fresh off the boat nepalese who behave stupidly". here FOB is not defined by act. ITS A GIVEN THAT FOB NEPALESE behaves STUPIDLY. i.e. NOT a definition derived from action rather a LABEL ON NEW PEOPLE WHO DOES NOT FIT IN UR ACCEPTANCE CLASS/LEVEL. u advised "if it's a fresh off the boat nepali man, avoid him like the plague" here also FOB is not defined by ACT. ITS A LABEL based on UR PERCEPTION. i.e. to NEW COMERS. ================================================== as always what do i know? (o: