mamta.... i agree with your firsty paragraph... totally, hence i dont do it.. and yup, i let the people know that i dont like them if i dont....so we think alike... but when i get to the second paragraph...... the first half of the sentence ticks me off, "All of you want us to be a "sati sabitri", " at first, i dont give a damn about them all, so come down to what i think about a girl... yeah, i do want her to be a "sati sabitri" there is nothing wrong with that.... but again... that my opinion and my choice...... seems like that the only thing i dont agree with you... seems like i agree with everything you say but that small portion "All of you want us to be a "sati sabitri", "