sanjays, you talk about how you have changed since you left home, and i think same thing applies with us but we dont get drunk to death. Coiming to america has taught a lot to us, from working 12 hrs a day to going to clubs and hanging out with friends. yess here we dont have to report to our parents before sunset. we are free to certain extent only though. We still dont have freedom like guys, and even americans dont exercise that freedom. girls have never been able to come out of their cocoon and say heyy this me is, i dont give a damm on what you think. we are just conscious of what others think about us, and we are constantly thinking if i do this or that what will my husband or my in laws will think after i get married. Though we are powerful, and can proove that we are more efficient than boys than too we can never be treated like society does to men.