Nothing related to the topci - but, Am I not understanding the whole statement of is it just me...lol but I have to take my view towards the other side of the closet...I think I am proud of all Nepalese Gals not just surviving to live out of the hell hole but struggling/surviving in the free world beyond Nepal where the culture/tradition is demoralized to a certain extend, I always felt sorry for Gals who felt like living in a jail cell who had to report to their parents at before the sunset. What is the difference between the two genders besides the sex organs? They are as intelligent as us whom they have proved it time and time. As far as how they behave as they progress to survive and live outside the jail cell. Look at us for example, we are a good example. I bechu` all never did things infront of your parents before that you are freely doing it now. Lets take a good example of "MYSELF" I never would dare to smoke in front of my father/mother and that is no longer an issue. Drinking oh well never drank as much in my life - like a fish. So what if you see gals enjoying in the party sometimes, drinkin`smokin`having the best time of their life? Let it be let it be let it be..