mamta and AeutiKT i would give u an example of how "MAJORITY of FEMALE" change once coming to STATES. if somebody speaks to them in Nepali they would answer in ENGLISH. [ wow!!!. as if one forgot NEPALI the minute they LANDED in US.] Reflect this in your own life how many times u have done that honestly and u would figure out whether u really changed or not. Thapap ji, everyone has to change according to the surroundings. We all young generation are soo weak in nepali that we cannot even speak clear nepali. In my school among 12 subjects that i studied only one was in nepali and I was sooo weak in nepali that i always had to cheat in nepali exams. Its not that they are changed its the way we are brought up. I remember when i was in school we used to get punushed if we were found speaking nepali. some people call the way we talk as being "stylish" its not stylish at all, when i was in nepal i used to use soo many english words when i talked to my parents and everytime i said something my sister had to translate it to nepali i used to be soo embarassed. take it easy thapap ji, its all who we are and how we were brought up.