nepalisaila, i would have to second u on "American guys are so sick. In fact, if nepalese guys adopt culture, honesty and hardwork, it is more likely that girls from the rest of the world would fall on them." but aren't u getting stringent on rules for girls (O: . I sense a big "dbl standard" cooking there. [ who would lyk to get married to a girl going to club? how about guys going to club? same difference from another view (o:] mamta and AeutiKT i would give u an example of how "MAJORITY of FEMALE" change once coming to STATES. if somebody speaks to them in Nepali they would answer in ENGLISH. [ wow!!!. as if one forgot NEPALI the minute they LANDED in US.] Reflect this in your own life how many times u have done that honestly and u would figure out whether u really changed or not.] As for me .. OLD IS GOLD (O: .... ppl still say that i speak exactly the same way I did 10 yrs ago. Prolly coz I have not undergone morphosis or may be did not get incubated with amicable ambience (O: required for "so called" transformation. ===================================================== as always, what do i know (O: