mamta i agree with you too. as long as guys get whatever they want and the girls do whatever the guy says........ everything is good. As soon as you do something against them, then they are westernized, americanized, and that we have attitudes. Can't a girl think for themself? is making a decision on their own, going against their guy, or having their own opinion a wrong thing? why does that make one americanized??? and make them look like they have attitude problems? Why does a guy feel like that the girl is acting all that just coz they came to US? get a life!!!