guys, I am not trying to belittle anybody here, I am sure there are a lot of intelligent and nice girls here in US. so, I am sorry if I offended any body. sand is deep : I was too young to think about marrige and family life when I came to US. thugged_out: dude you have got to reevaluate your stance on women. achievers have tended to been males in the past because they have always had the upper hand. and women have always been opressed. further more dont just look at the good things males have done, also consider all the wars, distruction and various other evils that have happened because of males. So, I think its time we start to respect and appreciate the good women in our lives and give them chances, and filter out the bad ones.