The Reason Why They Don't Want To: 1) May Be Nepali Parents Lack of Confidence, 2) Here In The USA We Don't Have an Seperate Identity as A Nepali Like Indians, Chinese & Spanish Do. 3) We Are Not Economically Sound, Blue Color Workers, Illegals, Low Status in The Professional Jobs Hold, Could Be Other Factors. 4) Negative Emotions: They Might Think - " OH ! Ma Ta Garib Desh Bata AAKO, Gaun-ko Manchhe- America-ma Ayye- Maile Dherai Thulo Kura Gare, Thulo Kura Paye. " These All Come To Play To Build the Positive Self-Esteem Of an Individual, Then Could Think About Beyond Him/Her self, Finally The Family & Culture. - BD P.S - Just My Interpretation.