Look at our parents. How many of our parents are divorced?, maybe a few out of millions of couples. I'm not proposing arranged marriage. Maybe we should look into their relationships? the way they worked it out? After all, a lot of our nature does seem to match at least one of our parents'. I dont define a relationship as a connection. It's a compromise. And I think thats where we're missing. Girl goes, "You never do this, I cant do this..", guy goes the same.What about the guy saying "I'm sorry i didnt do this", or a simple "Lets get advice from our parents on this?"?????? Relationships shouldn't be between 2 people only. When a guy and a girl get together, they bring together two families, two different cultures together. It's like trying to plant a flower in some other place. Do you just break off the flower? If so it rots and dies. Bring it along with its roots and THERE! it'll last as long as its supposed to. GET MY POINT?