No one should be playing a "blame game". Blame Game is played by loosers. Blame your problems to someone else and the first one to get blamed -their own parents. If a girl goes out has an affair, has a kid as a result of the affair and the parents do not know about it and you think it is the parents at fault? How absurd. The girl is out of line here. Please do not blame parents for being parents. -Shiv