Snurp... Let me elaborate.....I was talking about being victimized anatomically....not emotionally. I can understand your concern over guys undergoing through the same trauma....but definitlely not physically as women do. It is a praiseworthy effort from rythm and I believe life is too short for animadversions, just enjoy and read this lovely story....not everything has to be scrutinized under an eye glass. As far as oscar goes....i honestly think I deserve more...because it is not a feigned performance...I always know what I say.