JG... Please do not take my comments of Paarijat in the wrong way. I did not, not even try, to correlate your BDC to any literary products of Paarijat, rather trying to make a bridge between two thinking. Men writing from Women's perpective (the sentiments of female you potray here despite being a male), and the similarity of Paarijat style (if you have read Sirish ko Phool, how she wrote that one on Men's shoes: however, she is a single lady all her life). That is the case....!!! That's the reason I am so lost on your last sentence. So neat thinking despite you being male. HD