http://www.bdancer.com/Masculine.html (Belly dancing tips for men: 'Facial expression: 'Smile with a facial expression that communicates high spirits, confidence, and joy in manhood, occasionally changing to a fierce look when showing power directly. Keep chin up enough to look proud but not aloof or detached (keep rapport with audience). . . ') http://www.snakehips.com/cardinalrules.htm (General tips: 'Stay in character for the duration of a gig, especially at Joe Public events. Remember, you're being paid to be a mysterious exotic belly dancer, not Cyndi from the marketing department. Do not flirt, mingle, or reveal your real name or day job . . .') http://www.sonic.net/~erisw/bdlibgallery.html (Belly dancing librarians)