you will feel bad for a little while, but in a week or so, it'll all be over. it's kinda like the flu...but again, it depends on so many things. you really can't force someone to love you. it has to come naturally. therez a bonny rait (who i am not a big fan of ) song that goes "i cant make you love me if you don't. you can't make your heart feel something anymore...." but again, i believe that where therez a will, therez a way. so if you really really really love her, then you will figure out a way. this i learnt from the lousy hindin movies i watched growing up....