I just googled the name of my first love and it looks like she is doing well in life. I found her email address /phone number but I don't think I am going to write or call - what's the point - why blast her from the past - for all I know she probably has a protective husband and a couple of bhuntang-bhuntings running around the house (she married early). The sight of their mommy gigling on the phone with her ex will probably send the kids wailing and the husband growling and snarling! Unnecessary tension - I say chhodo kal ki bate, kal ki bat purani .... Sigh!