No Texan youre not alone.... MSN or Yahoo or AIM is a different thing, I bumped into my ex the other day and it was a total co-incidence. None of us are from that place but we were visiting our frens in that place, and no our frens are not frens. but we still ended up bumping into each other... there definitely will be that attachment with your ex, let alone your first love.... its different when the other person is the first person you gave your heart to. no matter what the reason is for breaking up, there still will be that small feeling towards them... no matter what !!!