The more complicate you make , the more complicate it gets.. pahila pahila buda pakha haru layee didn' have to think so much. Now it's getting complicated like building a space rocket..Suprisingly thier married life worked like a charm and ours are falling apart like a old paral ko hut in mansoon..... We're influenced by westerns, and we have conditions and complications.. no wonder most of us living in US and western Europe are budho bokas and budhi bakhrees.... better act soon .....