Dear Moneyminded, thanks for your views and taking time to clear out issues, i am not here to mess with anybody on castes,and religion things, i always think this is very bad tradition/culture of nepal,and since nepalese shun away changes,that's why we are so backwards. hope nepal can learn from china, look how fast china is developing and becoming economic power. and i noted you said ......come to hk and i will show u, how same it is? Believe it or not,it's up2you,I know not less of chinese than you,so i know it's true or not. Let's call it quits. Hope you will find perfect girl for you on this nepal visit! Advance congratulations to you on your marriage! Good Luck!