Right... Hunk in Grave are points taken, and no... my story is different. Well... let me share what I'm living, I'm in love with a lady from other country (thinking to get marriage) she is a mexican engineer and I have never ask her to change her religion, is the opposite way she wants to know more about hinduism and is reading and stuying, but she is doing it because she loves me and is interested, she has no problem in learning about my religion but I never ask her to convert, any way I'm so happy that she is so interested, but it doesn't means that she will change her religion. I think that in any relationship you learn every day more on the person that you love, and more in this case,to love a person with a different nationality is not to lose your identity, if you are in love is because you share same values I think that you can have an agreement.