Happy Tihar to all of you here ! "Even if we can not celebrate it physically, no one has power to bar us to celebrate mentally/psychologically". Frinds, thank you for reading my letter and sharing your similar feelings. Dada, I am sorry that I was unable to help you for your request. I am passing very busy time now. I hope, I may contribute in coming days. BTW, how was the program overall? B.D., Thank you for your sensitive writings. I always remember your sentences while moving for further paces, specially when deciding my son's future paths. I think I have some good experiences of diversities during my past days till date (do not have specific clues about the future yet!). I can, at least, compare each other, draw lines of similarities and differences, express them in suitable occasions (like here in Sajha) and enjoy within myself. I hope my expressions do not affect anybody in person. If you have not gone till now, please go through my story *Manju Maalai Maaf Gara Hai* here in Sajha to kill your valuable time during weekends (please keep in mind that I am not a writer but a technician) Ruina, Are you still here in Sajha? I am glad to see you during Tihar. I like 'Ashish' more than the 'Suvakamana' becuase Suvakamana is usually superficial in nature compared to Ashish. Ashish comes from the heart but Suvakamana comes from the mouth. It is my interpretation --- need not be the same with others... hehe. As far as my sister's accessibility to the Sajha is concerned, it is my only a hope. Even if it is not, you read my letter, which is already more than enough for me. Is not it? ---- OK