How much of efforts u(both of you) are gonna put into it? Are you(both of u) honest about your feelings? There is a fuzzy phase, when what you know is not a good enough knowledge! You want to run away? Hell No! So don't seek for comfort. Seek for wisdom. Even if some people here tell you to act certain ways, you are not gonna take it! so....why ask it? Damn! life's so difficult!