Hush - Maybe I am growing old, but my first reaction to the article was : grow up, people! But on second thoughts, I guess many people do find themselves in such situations which is perhaps why someone bothered to write about in the first place. Personally, I would hope people's abilities to tolerate ambiguity and peculiarity will have been well developed by the time they are ready to get into a serious relationship. Otherwise what would be the point of not staying single where you wouldn't have to worry about something or someone not being to your total liking :) Hope all else is well with you.