Nirman, That should a bonus. I mean the conquering part. If we surrender simply because of realization of the fact that we are THE weaker sex, everything becomes easy. ;) Even the cruelest of a person shows some mercy to the one who surrenders. But I do not know about these 'softer' kinds. Softer kind? Hahahaha . . . SEE!!! "Softer" and "Kind." Who are we kidding? ;) All these terminology associated with them are deceptively gentle and criminally misleading. Everything sounds oh so nice. But we know the fact, don't we? Have you ever thought about this? 'Feminist' sounds more appealing than a ?chauvinistic.? And they have associated former with females and latter (often) with males. Talk about hypocrisy! The situation is ominous my friend. That is exactly why I am practicing celibacy ;). Thus, I am here to give in to, not to surmount. Abu sathi haru le nai lekhna chade bhane ke majja bhayo ta? Feri afno bhanne timi jasta ek ad bahek aru ko chan ra? Saab paraye sab swarthi chan yaha. hahahaha. Jai Hanuman gyan gun sagar. . . Keep em coming' IndisGuise:) P.S: Sorry about that day Nirman. Perhaps we can catch up some other time.