Not for a moment did I write with the intent to instigate any one or any thing - it is unfortunate that you interpreted it to be such. I wrote what I truly felt was the right thing to do in a situation like this. I am of the belief that one should not tolerate prejudie, overt or covert, even for the sake of "keeping peace", especially when you know the person who is indulging in such practices is capable of doing better than that. I rest my case.