RED STONE YOUR ARE MORE THAN 100 % RIGHT. "fo...... king even hard to find true friends these day" very true. All I met turned to be DAM OPPORTUNISTS. Even, very close frs or relatives or the one who were so much trusted. Aba ta pugyo YAAR. Affno sur gara gina. Don't expect anything from others. That's the killer. If you can help DO IT only if you don't get hurt, otherwise screw it. Follow it; the middle path to make yourself comfortable. Then no pains or watver.