but ruina what is jism ( it is a cloth of atma), have we ever tried to look beyond the physicality.................have we ever tried to listen to soul or inner side .....have we ever tried to break the barrier of dark and light.....what is the result...what is inbetween. To have orgasm u dont need to have sex....it is all in your mind...what is the biggest sex organ in your body...it is mind. Have u guys ever realised that ppl in old ages...they dont need to have sex for orgasm or to be happy but still they get it and how happy are they? seek for answer...i dont want to be guru in sajha...but if anyone wants i will answer u back.......... always remeber having better sex means breaking 6 chakras into one coz all the chakra expect one has two side...when u will be able to reach last chakra in head which dont have any dual side...it is same as nirvana...