What is love? We all humanbeings are made of half and half like ying yang....we all have half male and half female side....in within. Lets say why u fall in love with one gal in millions...coz she is the represention of the inner part of your female side , same thing with female, she found it her male side in him.....then infatuation starts....okie why infatuation is important...without infatuation love is like curry without salt coz of infatuation we love everything about her, way she smiles...ways she talk, way she play with her hair.....u start to find so many similarities in her/. The reason is u make your inner side of female/male alive. U supress the outerside....then time passes u start to bring outer women u start to mess up then u start to find lot of disimilarites....then u he try to change her and she try to change her....start of conflict....guys tries and gal tries but they never realise that u cant change but then gal has more patience, she will say" not today not tomrrow may be day after tomorrow.....and sometimes it goes 25 yrs....but u she or he is not changed....at the end they get old and realise to be satisfied...they bring the inner female outside and she brings inner male outside then they bring the female and male side of chakra toghether............this is called moment of bliss... if u understand this............u will understand love...