IS THERE A POINT TO SUFFER anymore than they already did?? I am not going to tell the whole world what i've been through to call myself a martyr..so don't tryy to press my buttons cuz you might hear what i've been through and belive me you will mentally suffer after hearing that ans ..my point here is i'm not new to suffering and if i can do it and get over it and so can they and you too.. why don't you follow Budha's path you will totally be enchanted..right now i know i am enchanted by myself..so i don't care ...for more discussion can you be more specific???