I think i miscommunicated here...what i wanted to say was this: " don't feel sorry unless you PROMISE to change their lives better way..cause giving them HOPE for an unrealistic future is worse than giving them none at all!! ----give them not just hopes but make yourself people that these kids can believe in... Otherwise these neglected children will do anything for people who care for them: e.g This picture below some teenager maoist who are well convinced and support by their leaders are churning (advocating) all the kids in the villages who have no better future to be come like thme. What are we going to do about this???Who is responsible for inspiring these children, isn't this lack of ignorance and false hopes that has led the country to this point?