ha ha you guys are real winners. "define what kind of party so that people can dressup accourdingly right?" lets start with your name. what kinda name is CandyMAN... does it imply someone who gives candies to kids and expects sexual favors or perhaps a fruity guy.. a gay dude... a Homo? I find that very offensive. How about you change your name? The list goes on... I have a question for you, if you go out in the streets and step on some dog shit, do you stop walking from tomorrow or you choose a different route? If you find certain things offensive either dont look OR close your eyes, those eyes lids come pretty handy you know...