moneyminded, I do not know why not much people replied in this thread, it is truly emotional, I can now see why you had been dissappearing from sajha for quite a while. I am sorry to say but you are contradicting yourself, I do not see a reason why you shouldn't love a single mom, I can fall in love with a 85 year old woman, the chances could be as high as falling in love with Kirsten Dunst. Love cannot be measured by any yardstick. If you really love her and the feelings are vice versa....I would highly encourage you to talk to your parents.