If I've understood the original question, the new comers are not necessarily looking for help (financial or the place to settle). For me, I'd just wanted to know that there's a guy from home whom I can talk with coz' suddenly the topics for chat has changed after coming here. But you guys also figured it out the wrong way and offering for shelter (food, money, n' blah blah blah; lol). But basically I'd just wanted to talk; that's it. But it's really sad to know that they're not happy to know about another nepali's presence here while the guys from other countries are sharing the interest together.