It is a huge struggle for any immigrant in the US to make a life. Kehi na kehi muskil ta aai raheko nai huncha. And more or less, almost each and everyone is going through this, no matter what the socio-economic condition that person is in. So, aafai ta mahadev, kalley dela bar, bhanya jastai, when one's own plate is full, it is difficult to take burdens from other's plate. Therefore, when one does get help, one has to be very very grateful to that help giver because what s/he has given is not only generous, but also somewhat uncommon. Sad, but true.