>>for all the people who have just arrived to US it is better to understand that u are on ur own and there is no one to help u.it is much easier that way.atleast u won't have any false sense of security. Yep, that's the way to go. You don't expect somebody to help you. You do it on your own. If somebody helps you, he's a good man. If he does not help you, that does not make him a bad man.