http://www.kevdo.com/lipbalm/recovery.html (Lip Balm Addicts Anonymous: Step 1 : We admitted we were powerless over lip balm -- that our lives had become unmanageable (includes articles on 'the Chapstick Conspiracy') http://www.clutterersanonymous.net/literature/12stepsCLA.html (Clutterers Anonymous: Step One: 'We admitted that we were powerless over clutter -- that our lives had become unmanageable . . .') http://www.snakelyone.com/12step.htm (New Agers Anonymous: Step 1: "We admitted we were powerless over the New Age?that our Higher Selves had turned us into flakes . . .') How Can You Stop Depending on Others' Approval? Barefoot Doctor: "It would be unnatural not to want the approval of others but to depend on it always weakens your position. To prevent this happening you must work on building your own self-approval levels, by developing your own internal voice in whose eyes you can do no wrong, and to keep using that voice to tell yourself you're doing well, no matter what. Then when someone else happens to join in and give you some approval, it becomes a pleasant bonus rather than a need. Of course, you may well enjoy generating those internal chemicals that are only released when you're giving yourself a hard time but if you'd prefer to forego that sort of unnecessary self-harming, try repeating some sort of auto-suggestion mantra along the lines of 'I find myself highly pleasing no matter what'. "And as long as you remain sensitive to the needs as opposed to opinions of others, that's precisely how you'll find yourself." http://www.nccg.org/FAQ082-Music.html (How Satan infiltrates music: New Age music -- and instrumental music at that -- is composed by demons who are trained and empowered by their Master to use this music to posses men's bodies. Subliminal messages imbedded in the music aid in this objective. New Age music can easily overwhelm the senses of young people and adults alike. http://jeffmilner.com/backmasking.htm (Definitive back masking music tracks: Britney, Eagles, Queen etc) http://www.starterupsteve.com/swf/subliminal.html (Subliminal messages) http://www.electrosexual.net (France's Electrosexual) http://www.kanyewestsounds.com (Lushlife reworks The Beach Boys 'Pet Sounds' with acapellas and instrumentals from Kanye West': free downloads)