John, I guess everyone is entitled to their own ways. But I don't think I would be able to muster up any flirty lines if someones goes " Let's flirt". Those things should happen spontaneously, eh ? And my idea to thwart the ever so annoying " asl " worked quite well, until some new patterns emerged, which I thought was kinda endearing. "asl ?" " 36, divorced with twins." , I type. " I loveeee kids ! / I would make a good father ! / Are they identical ? / How much alimony did you receive ? "