I might perhaps add a wee line to what Gautam B. says above. Yes, why can't people just have a decency of respecting the very idea of 'living and also letting others live'. It's one thing to be an active Sajha contributor by taking, to use the layman's term, 'piss' on someone in a healthy manner, but it is quite another to pick up petty excuses to engage the other party in a decidedly confrontational manner to try and prove one's point, and that is by bringing one's personal matters to the fore. Now that to me is harrassment rather than any thing, and those who spew the basest of vidictive verbal abuse to score personal gains at the expense of one's humility and genuine thoghtfulness, be that in a forum such as Sajha's or elsewhere, derseve none of my sympathy or anyone else's. Those whose interests sits elewhere and yes, particularly those who cannot bring themselves to follow what's generally accepted as its standard norm should not even bother visiting Sajha or any other sites for that matter. Those of us in need of light humour and entertainment and those with an appetite to absorb and where possible, engage in so a many meaningful debates that takes place on a daily basis in these Sajha forums, could do well without such, dare I say, uncivilised behaviours. Okay too much, woffling. And Shree5 Ji, do keep us 'rolling' with your humour. Will you. Carpe diem