Sitara, ya, true, it all depends upon that individual person. "survival' is the technique. Personally I have seen both survivals, KETA & KETI . But, my experience was as I had mentioned above. I have heard, Ladies saying (refferring to their hubbies, bfs) Keta haru ko ni Buddi hunchha ra in normal marriage cases. Chot ra Bedana-ma jeevan barbad garne Keta ko ta ahile kura nagaru, Dherai Katha haru chhan, Biddhu-haruko. oh well. Antama- Jeevan aa-aafno bhogaee ho. -BD