"Most of the time KETA are the victims, BHAWAN-KO kura garda. KETIs know how to move forward in their life." Bangli Damini I believe many "victim Ketas" do manage to grope around and find their way up. Whereas many women might move forward by swinging on to the next Bhawan wagon that drives by. So survival is a human tendency whether you grope or swing and practicee makes it easier! :P