Well, I would say, think carefull before making a decsion. MAKE SURE THAT YOU LOVE HER AND SHE LOVES YOU TOO. If this is the case, then you are going to be OK, go for her. Take care of the kid too. But if there is a slightest confusion on your part whatsoever which cannot guarantee that you guys can live forever, then think about it. Its better to say NO beforehand rather than going for it and leaving her on the way. So dude, ask yourself, whether u like her or not...whether you will love to live with her together throughout.