If you do not want to help that is fine but let other who wants to help do their best. How come nepali people can be not so helpful and pull down others who wants to help. Do you even know how hard life it is in nepal if you are poor and no one is their to help you in any way? I guess since you are in america you must be from rich family back in home becasue if you were poor maybe you still be in nepal or in gulf country. It is good tobe rich becasue you do not have to deal with what you will eat next meal or what will you feed to your kids!! So just be thankful that you can help someone. Even if you cannot donate your money you can still say some good words about the person or org. who is doing it. Come on!! it is okay to help our own brothers and sisters. Every human needs help in some point of life and it is good to help if you can. Save Nepal Keep up your good work and God bless you!!!!!!!!!And Nepali people will bless you too.