i am back,and checking all suggestions and advices from shajaites friends,and enjoyed reading them and thanks for your time!!! newlynew, u r right, i need a new girl, i will marry asap, no more girlfriends!! chat mangani patt biha!!! flipflop,,she might have loved him more than you....!!! maybe u r right!!! ocean - Relationships are often made to break some day???? anonymous - why feel humilated!!her loss ni ;o)...yeah,yeah, you are billion percent correct! i do not wanna elaborate on this,guys might think i am bullshitting. ashim - thanks for your suggestion,and thanks for BACHKE RAHENA RE BABA advice gurlinterrupted - thanks for your analysis,perhaps she is still very young 17-22 yrs old to focus her mind and energy in a stable relationship hence wondering around, u are very good at analysis,thanks for your suggestions as well. your meditation T... not taichi?? it's till now seems difficult to me, till now i am cursing herrrrrrrrrr. thanks anyway, i will try on that ASAP. matrix rose- time heals everything....so dont think too much. Keep yourself busy. yes, u r right, time is the best teacher!!! ruINa - guys and gals can't help ya..trust meh its u and time who can help. u deserve someone else.be happy!:) i feel like reading great philosophy, thanks for that, you r great!!! ruiNa,regarding your queries, that is long story... i will write someday to tell what exactly happened, the story here i started in this thread is just a short version!!! believe me, i was unaware what was cooking and when i knew she already ran away with this guy,ran away means poilo gayooooooooooo bou aama ko nak nei katayerrra !!! cab frank - Just be glad that you don't have to put up with her crap for years and years to come. wow!! yes, yeah, u r soooooo right!!! sweetP -In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: it goes on. Yes,YEAH!!! indisGuise - thanks for your sharing your experience, this is the right girl for you, you heard of??? A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person. you r great guy,and funny toooooo..., hehe!!! waiting for your new story of love struck romeo!!! bengal tiger - "Never ever take such relationships seriously. People are selfish. thanks, i will take note of this for future reference. thank you all for your time.....,i really appreciate it!!!