Posted by: Ashim September 20, 2005
the feeling of rejection
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Veekas bro: Sorry to hear that. Best thing is try to forget her. That is wat you need to do. If you are getting hard time forgetting her, try to keep busy yourself with your work or friends. Destroy or try to forget the things that reminds about her. If listening nepali songs reminds of her, change your habit to english music, etc... Believe me, if you go in deep, everyone is selfish and opportunist on this earth. Life is like a business. Your loss is someone's gain. That is wat happened to you.. Oneday, when you will be in gain.. that might be from someone's loss. It is unfortunate to have a relationship with a girl who never could forget the past, is so changable, changes the mind anytime and so immature to understand the beat of heart. Who never could understand how much you loved her. It sounds like she was never yours, she never loved you turuly and thruly. May be he was the first love, she never could forget him, she realized loosing him was the big mistake, may be she was feeling blessed to have him back, there might be so many reasons to go back with him. Do not build up the feeling of rejection. It's not that you are not trusthworty or you didn't love her, it's not that you are not good looking or anything. It's just she had to choose from the options. May be she found him the best. It's her choice. Like i mentioned above, we are seLfish and opportunist, we always choose the best out of available options. Like someone says above, it happens to many guys. I have seen it alot. I have seen guys leaving girls like that for the other girls. Khutta bhaye jutta kati kati.. So that do not feel bad. Things happen for the best. Definitely, there is some other best girl waiting for you.. just turn around and you will see her... smile :) Just be cautious before you give your heart to another girl again. Girls are bad these days... BACHKE RAHENA RE BABA
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