Trying to visualize all the things you have mentioned of your party last night, do you know the common saying, "While in Rome, do as Romans.." It will take ages for a person to learn a simple positive thing in life, but it takes a minute or even fraction of second to imitate negative things. Well, I am not as fortunate as you are to come in contact with Nepalese here in the States. But heard a lot young Nepalese gone wild things via friends and relatives. The notion of beauty here in the states is physical, rack (front/back), anorexic slimness, designer clothes, and all about show off, and who else could imitate first??? Only those people who are newly immigrated with full zeal of adopting new atmosphere with lost identity in search of buffer. But sometime, I keep wondering, if given you a chance to choose between simple girl wearing simple cothes, but with another girl with same bodily structure, but with a bit nip-tuc and all those desired elements, whom you approach first to talk? It is all about our lovi najar you know... I am sorry to hear that you were so traumatized yesterday night, but I am glad that you are stable now. Good for you- at least you tried to smile at her.