Well looks to me like you are academically smart, but your brother is street smart, you know school of hard knocks and all that stuff. Furthermore, he seems more extroverted. I'm not trying to bash you or anything, but you two have different personality. "Still wonder why she chose to marry me, maybe she thought I was still evolving to arjun rampal. " Well, guess she thought that you would be a better choice because of your personality. The reasoning is that she thought you would provide more security to her. As some people would say, nerds have all the women. Some grain of truth to it. Furthermore, looks to me like you're insecure about your looks. On one extreme you have Nepalis who look Chinese/Tibetan, and on the other extreme you have those who look Indian. Most Nepalis fall somewhere in between because we are mixed up. I too look North Indian. But I dunno what your ethnicity is. All I know is that most bahuns I know look Indianish. There are a few who look mixed up. I in fact met one who looked Japanese. I'm like wtf?? And these people criticize my looks. I have convinced all people around me that bahuns who don't look Indian are impure and probably got magar/gurung blood coursing through their veins. Nothing wrong with it, but this seems to be the case. Heh.