Oh I could not agree more with GI's interpretation. Oftentimes we give up on things far too easily. Yes, there could always be another one, always someone more appropriate, but the bottom line, for me at least, is love. I choose to believe, other things being equal, love among all the other things defines marriage. THAT alone shall determine marriage. When I say love, I take into all the small/big circumstantial or otherwise differences - including other necessary components. Marriage for me shall be, How beautiful it is to be; to be loved and to love thee. On the ending note however, I must insist, jab tak ladka kuwara, na tumhara na Aisworya ka. :). Just had to say it, its been other way round for too long. IndisGuise:)