thanks selroti, sristi, dadagiri, xena, ruina and baral, you all have a point, sristi - I have now understood that looks do not mean everything, I have a prettier wife now as compared to all other women I had been chasing all those years. Still wonder why she chose to marry me, maybe she thought I was still evolving to arjun rampal. ruina - nice to hear from you....how are you these days. highfly - it is merely an anecdote, there might be an ounce of jealousy, but it never lingered far enough. dada - you have a point here, but this is the word used by most of the people teenagers in Nepal. Nothing against them...and nothing against Indians either, should have put a suitable euphemism. baral - your compliments make me blush brother. And yes, i used to live in Pink Floyd, not as obsessed as bhai though and no this is not a negative connotation about "dhoti" looks. My apologies if it offended you guys by any means.